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This Story Ends Happily - But It Was Almost a Tragedy

Last week a 5 year-old drowned. (He survived and will be fine so technically he was the victim of a drowning but a non-fatal drowning.) His mother has courageously and generously posted her harrowing story on Facebook in hopes that others can learn from her experience and she begs other to share her post.

Her passionate plea is for others to know what drowning looks like, to know how quickly drowning happens, to know that it can happen in pool full of adults and to know CPR which can make all the difference between a fatal drowning and a non-fatal drowning.

We at British Swim School are in complete support of her message. We would also add that swim lessons can make a critical difference. Having children know how to roll over on the back and float is like strapping children into car seats or insisting on helmets – a potentially life-saving difference.

Below is some of what she wrote and wrote so movingly and so powerfully:
https://www.facebook.com/maribeth.leeson/posts/2772340169462045

The reason I’m sharing? This happened in a pool full of people. A pool full of ADULTS. I’ve read so many stories about kids slipping away from their parents and getting into a pool, to be found drowned shortly later. I’ve never considered the possibility that my child could drown right in front of people who were watching him bob up and down from the bottom of the pool to just below the surface, but didn’t think he was struggling because he looked like he was PLAYING. When I found him myself, 2 feet from adults who were in the pool, my first thought was that it wasn’t him, that it was someone else’s kid who was seeing how long they could hold their breath. I can 100% understand why the adults who were RIGHT THERE didn’t recognize that he was drowning because when I saw him, I too thought he was just a kid who was playing. What tipped me off was the kid I saw was wearing a shirt: Adam had gotten in the pool in his shirt. He doesn’t know how to hold his breath. GET HIM OUT!!!! THAT’S ADAM!!!! …I didn’t tell him to get in the pool without his Puddle-jumper on, but I was aware that he had. I simply told him to stay in the shallow end while I got his sister’s swimsuit on, then I would be over. I thought it was fine for 5 minutes, as he could touch just fine in the shallow end, he wasn’t alone because there were multiple adults IN the pool, and I’d be right next to the pool getting her suit on. Wrong. I have never ever been so wrong. He remembers what happened. He said he slipped off the edge. Based on where he was in the shallow end, and where we found him, he means the ledge from the shallow to the deep end. He said he kept going to the bottom then to the top and tried to yell “Mommy!” It kills me to hear that. It kills me to know that his last thoughts were that mommy didn’t come for him. But God decided to give me another chance to do better. He gave my baby back to me. Now he knows I DID come for him.”

I’m sharing this because I want to prevent this from happening to anyone else. Before going to any pool, first make sure your kids know not to get in until the adult who is responsible for them is ready to watch them. That sounds like common sense, but I was thinking because so many adults were present, he was fine, but those adults didn’t know his swimming ability so they didn’t question when he was under water. Second, KNOW THE SIGNS OF STRUGGLE! Adam didn’t look like he was struggling! He wasn’t splashing, thrashing, or screaming. He was simply underwater and couldn’t get his head above water. Third, know CPR. I do know CPR. Could I have performed it in that moment? I like to believe I could have if I hadn’t seen someone else taking charge. I like to think if I had been alone, my survival skills would have kicked in. Luckily, I don’t know, because my amazing friend was busy saving him, but I do know that if I didn’t know CPR, my helping him if we’d been alone wouldn’t have even been a possibility.

We are so grateful Adam survived. And we are truly grateful to his mother for sharing her story. Raising awareness of how easily drowning can happen will hopefully prevent more stories like Adam’s. Knowing the signs of drowning, knowing CPR and knowing how to roll over and float can prevent future Adams. Drowning is still a leading cause of accidental death for children. But drowning is preventable.

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